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Anonymous: How do you stay confident and be positive? my mom says I'm depressed i don't have any engegery for my age whatever that means.

It takes time to be confident and to be positive. Even I’m not there but you just have to remember to keep going, to keep moving. Don’t compare yourself to anyone love, you know why? You’re never going to be like that person. NEVER. You are you and you have this body, this life, so do something with it. Go out and be free. Live. Have that kind of mindset. To just live. Remember that everyday might not be a good day but there is something good in everyday. Yeah, you’re going to have bad days, yep it’s life. The thing is, you are in control of your life so you can make the bad day good or learn from it. We always learn from bad experiences, right? Well, at least I do. I think you have to remember that even though you have bad days, you’re going to have some amazing days as well. Yep, for sure. I’m not going to lie. It’s good though because without the bad we wouldn’t know the good.   Just look at everything like you’re never going to see it again. Who knows? You might not. Remember, everything happens for a reason. Sometimes we find out, sometimes we don’t. It’s life. We don’t anything. Nothing is guaranteed. But we can either laugh on this roller coaster or just be scared. I don’t about you but I want to laugh. I can’t tell you how to be confident or to be positive because that’s something you have to solve for yourself. Just remember, to live.

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Anonymous: There have to be better ways of coping that sleeping and what you and I have already said.

This is what some of my followers said:

  1. mymistakesandretakes said: Listen to HAPPY music. Music that you know is going to make you feel good. Maybe Look at cute cat videos or just funny animal videos in general.
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  2. searching4wonderland said: I struggle with a severe cutting problem… I looked for help. The sight of a knife or anything sharp struck me to temptation; I began clawing at my arms in my sleep. My secret is that i run. It gives me the same high feeling and release i need…
  3. dontwish-try said: People may become familiar with the release of endorphins that is a result of cutting, using this can help. Seeking further help would be recommended as well as stopping all together.
  4. forget-the-past-dream-the-future said: just screaming helps me(: but if you dont want to go too intense you could always kick back and watch mean girls or something ;)
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Anonymous: you are an amazing girl! your blog is fantastic and it makes me smile every day. you are absolutely gorgeous and i hope this message makes you smile♥

It sure did <3 You are a lovely anon ! Thank you so much <3

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Anonymous: What the motherfucking fuck? You're not like never on and what if I need you? Huh? Like what if one day I get a iphone stuck up my ass and I need advice on how to get it out? What then? Jesus christ, get on your fucking blog more! --your nazi partner--

Uhm, I’m sorry?

Well, if you get an iphone stuck up your ass, you might want to see a doctor and then a therapist to talk about your priorities.

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Anonymous: post your tumblr crushes? :)

okie dokie (: one second!

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Anonymous: Please help me. Im sixteen years old. And quite little. I smoke and since a little while i got depressed. The reason is love. And i think i'm addicted to alcohol now. I drink everynight usually. And now, in the vacation, i drink outside AND at night. Money is no problem. A lot of my friends have troubles too and they all go and cry on my shoulder. While I need a shoulder too. I'm sorry if I'm annoyig rightnow. I just really want someone to tell me i'm an asshole ! thanjs anyway !

Sweetie, I confused and I honestly don’t know what you want me to answer. You’re not annoying and you have me if you need a shoulder. You’re not an asshole, maybe just confused. 

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Anonymous: I need help, trying to convince my mom to take me to a dermatologist. I have acne on my forehead and rarely on my cheeks. But my acne is actually not too bad. But it always make me feel not confident AT ALL. & it put's my self esteem down everyday knowing that i'm ugly. I just want professional help so it will go away ):

Aweh. Sweetie, everyone has acne! It’s nothing to be embarrased or sad or non confident about. It’s going to go away eventually. If you really think you need to go, then tell your mom how you feel and she should take you. You’re not ugly because you have acne. It’s life. We were never supposed to be perfect. I have acne, another person has acne, a lot of people have acne and you know what love, it goes away (: Just tell her how you feel and if she still says no, use soap. I spend 15 minutes in the shower just scrubbing my face with soap (:

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Anonymous: I'm in a serious problem/decision. I have a little mustache but you can't really see it unless you look. But it's so aggravating unfeminine like that I wanna wax it off. Do you think it would grow back if I did? :/

Sweetie, it’s hair, it’s supposed to grow back :P If it worries you that much :P , then sure go ahead but it will grow back. Try getting someone to thread it off, it doesn’t grow as fast(:

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Anonymous: I just don't think I can handle it anymore. Maybe this sounds shallow or something but I've never gotten like even 10 likes on a FB picture of mine. Yet I see other girls, I feel like I'm just as pretty as them and possibly prettier yet they get all get 40+ So when people say I'm beautiful, I seriously don't believe them because my self esteem has gone down. It's just not fair since I cry about not being beautiful/pretty every day...

You are just as beautiful and you don’t need 10 likes nor do you need 40. Why should getting likes matter? It’s not important. What’s important is that you’re confident in the way you look. There is nothing wrong with you. You are beautiful and when people tell you, believe them. You are beautiful, pretty, gorgeous. etc.. Believe in yourself.

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Anonymous: Lovely, you don't suck at everything. One area where you really don't suck at all, actually you rock at it, is making people smile<3 And, you don't suck at giving advice<3

Haha aweh thank you so much <3 I appreciate it (: and I hope I don’t suck at it :P

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Anonymous: Nobody on Tumblr cares. I just want someone to talk to but they all ignore me. They say they're always there for me, but when I ask, they're not.

Well, I am here love. So, come talk to me? <3 They are there for you, I promise. They could be just a bit busy though.

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Anonymous: Do you answer message any more?

ehhhhh.. I’m way too busy but I’ll answer them eventually.

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